Many people try to achieve their goals, but without success, which makes their lives to focus thought on bad luck. Bad luck is something that cannot be conceived, is something that is within the mind of someone, that really matter are the results and they are those that allow us to grow, are the bad things that we must use for personal growth and where is not allowed to call them as bad luck, but as opportunities for personal growth. What they don’t know is that life is based on an approach, I am referring to approach as a way of seeing life, not as a regret, but as a challenge and learning. But I am also referring to approach such as the ability to give direction to your thoughts and take them only towards where you want to, i.e., only do think what you want, what we could call as a concentration. Although few people have that developed quality, those who do not have it, in your hands is one of the more major challenges of life, which is autodominarse, mercy and help itself. Without a doubt, why there is personal improvement, neurolinguistic techniques, and all these forms achieve self-control..